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All of our episode topic this week is the most suitable Sex Ever so we have been speaing frankly about… the most effective sex we have now had! We’re accompanied by Autostraddle copywriter, poet, and reporter Dani Janae as we get into some passionate stories accompanied by an in-depth discussion regarding what helps make good intercourse good. And we fork out a lot of the time on my sexual hang ups that i might or may not have actually done a lot of run come early july!

Arrive when it comes down to lesbian movie-themed online game, stay the coming.

PROGRAM NOTES

+
The 200 Most Useful Lesbian+ Movies number
that Christina pulled the online game from.

+ If you haven’t study Dani’s
Physiology of a Mango
show you probably must.

+
This is actually the essay
We published regarding the person I talk about on episode. Its only been 24 months but such has changed!

+ summer time has passed and we however stan Olivia Rodrigo. See the
“raw” music video clip
.

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Dani:

The cat therefore the puppy were inside the room there ended up being cat and dog tresses almost everywhere. And thus, I happened to be definitely having an allergic impulse although we happened to be having sexual intercourse. Although climax was like chef’s kiss. It absolutely was the most perfect, best experience physically.

Christina:

I question whether it’s something in regards to the hives that really included just a little

je ne sais quoi

to that orgasmic knowledge.

Theme track plays

Drew:

Thank you for visiting

Wait, So Is This a Date?

Christina:


Hold off, So Is This a Date?

is an Autostraddle podcast all about, you guessed it, internet dating.

Drew:

Yay! Everyone Loves internet dating. I Am Drew Gregory. I’m a writer for Autostraddle, and a filmmaker, and merely basic trans gay individual round the internet and… I happened to be browsing state globe, but it is really similar to L. A. and nyc.

Christina:

I really like this globe trotting homosexual personality you are accepting here in 2021.

Drew:

I want that. Yeah, it’s money for hard times.

Christina:

Yeah. I will be your own various other number, Christina Tucker, additionally an author for Autostraddle, deranged loud gay online. Merely method of out right here, authorship, being gay, performing everything we can every min to try and work through this existence that people’re living.

Drew:

You are truly carrying it out. You are really functioning throughout that life.

Christina:

Frankly, its all I’m able to do. That’s all i’ve, it’s the only option.

Drew:

I absolutely appreciate the attempt.

Christina:

The attempt to stay?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Yeah. In fact, truly brave of us to even try it. You are not incorrect, you are not incorrect. Could you be thinking about playing a little video game nowadays, Drew?

Drew:

Oh my God, i am very excited. Cannot hold off observe that which you have in my situation.

Christina:

I’m therefore pleased you asserted that as you definitely need certainly to say yes, for the reason that it’s part of this package that individuals’ve produced right here. So you may be aware of the fact that on autostraddle.com, the internet site, we now have a summary of 200 lesbian films.

Drew:

I am aware from it. I may wrote it.

Christina:

You could have. What I have inked is actually pull a selection of 10 of those movies. I stored them to the most truly effective 50. I’ll provide you with the plot keywords as decided by people on IMDb and you are attending need do you know what motion picture it really is.

Drew:

Okay. I just desire the listeners, wherever you’re, to find out that I’m not planning to pull-up the list. I do believe that’s right, am I let’s assume that’s correct in how I must respecting this video game?

Christina:

I think that’s extremely polite and I also genuinely believe that’s fair. In addition type rely on that this goes end up being something which pops into their heads pretty possible for you, i did not go also remaining.

Drew:

We have an awful memory, but yes, i will try to set folks up for reasonable expectations.

Christina:

Reasonable adequate.

Drew:

So if i actually do effectively, it is love style of blow all of them away, just in case I do not do well, are going to want, “Well, she mentioned…” Anyways, carry on. Why don’t we begin this.

Christina:

Why don’t we start. I’ll start with pretty general ones and I also will receive much more certain even as we get, because a lot of them are practically just what the movie is during two terms. So wewill just be sure to start with a wider experience right here.

Drew:

I adore it.

Christina:

The first movie: medications will be the very first land phrase. Manhattan, New York City will be the second. Hate crime is the third.

Drew:

Okay.

Its All-over Me.

Christina:

Yes, it is! See, we understood you will be able to perform this.

Drew:

Great.

Christina:

We absolutely knew you’d be able to do this.

Drew:

In addition, i recently need to let people know which very underrated lesbian films, while really need to notice it. And Leisha Hailey in this flick is my personal cellphone history for a couple years now. So only a great small reality there for many people.

Christina:

We love that. All right, flick number two. “not known pops,” body organ donor, cemetery, death of boy. Oh, she is considering.

Drew:

Personally I think like i ought to absolutely fully grasp this considering — hold off, unidentified grandfather, death of son, organ donor. Oh,

Everything About My Personal Mother.

Christina:

There really, see.

Drew:

A different one of my favorites.

Christina:

It is very exciting to see the things which folks decide are a storyline search term that they must extract from all of these movies. I’m in addition not checking out the types being just lesbian for the reason that it looks a lot like a gimme.

Drew:

That’s the way I assembled a lot of the listing as if you appear up lesbian films, that which you found was the old Autostraddle record or some databases which are not very detailed, therefore I would in fact browse through lists of the keywords and phrases of lesbian, lesbian making out, these matters like girls kissing, these matters, and discover motion pictures where they are perhaps not regarded as a lesbian movie since they are a bit more fascinating, or just slightly much less drive, that is certainly the way I found a number of the movies being today from the number, so back to where it started.

Christina:

Tune in, IMDb keywords coming in handy for all of us always. This option, people went crazy with this one. Very simply probably review some haphazard terms to you. Hey, whistling, woman, black colored activities bra, lake, stomping out a cigarette, on-the-job collision.

Drew:

Face to face collision? Oh, I Imagined I Experienced it immediately after which, well—

Christina:

Cold, in parentheses, the heat.

Drew:

Due to the fact at first I became probably state

Foxfire,

but then the on-the-job accident changed myself up. On-the-job crash.

Christina:

Do you need a few more?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Pickup crashes through a fence.

Drew:

Is-it

Miseducation of Cameron Post?

Christina:

It is really not.

Drew:

Because working crash was a truly dreadful way of explaining that one in the homosexual because you’re attempting to become not gayness, attempts to mutilate themselves or really does mutilate by themselves. That’d be quite intensive, but I didn’t understand with the IMDb thinkers. Okay, wait, this is exactly tricking me personally upwards.

Christina:

Are you wanting a few more from me?

Drew:

Vehicle through a fence. I’m certain it’s a thing that I’m simply not… Yeah, keep working.

Christina:

Reference to a school loan. They are very peanuts.

Drew:

Wait, perhaps you have seen this flick?

Christina:

I have come across this film.

Drew:

Is it crazy that I am not getting hired?

Christina:

It really is a tiny bit untamed. I am able to supply a-year, if you prefer per year.

Drew:

Should you decide provide myself a-year, We’ll undoubtedly have it.

Christina:

Okay. 2016 can be your 12 months.

Drew:

2016. Okay, let me know what it is.

Christina:

It is the film,

Certain Females,

2016.

Drew:

Oh! Yeah.

Christina:

I must say I believed vehicle crashes through a wall would get you, but I also just love these individuals merely taking out nouns and merely being like, “male.” Usually what you think?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Okay.

Drew:

That’s the motion picture. I have to see that once again.

Christina:

Its. It really is a fantastic film.

Drew:

Yeah, it really is a truly fantastic flick.

Christina:

Fine, the subsequent movie. Kissing while having sex.

Drew:

The greatest variety of both, possibly, somehow.

Christina:

Attraction, dude farm.

Drew:

Is it

Desert Hearts?

Christina:

Yeah. So I ended up being like, “Okay, you’ve got attain that next one.” The other one I happened to be planning to provide was — “nipples” ended up being the truly plainly highlighted. And I was like, “Sure, which section of that film.”

Drew:

Jesus,

Desert Hearts.

You understand how absolutely every one of these frustrating people online trying to end up being Shane. Sorry, I mean, if you should be trying to end up being Shane, I accept you. But myself, my frustrating thing is I’m trying to end up being Cay. Cay where movie is much like this is certainly just who I think of due to the fact types of lesbian that I want to end up being.

Christina:

Yeah, that’s true, can verify. Okay, tend to be we prepared in regards to our then one?

Drew:

Yeah.

Christina:

Season—

Drew:

Wait, no, We have something else to state about

Desert Hearts.

Christina:

Certain.

Drew:

After the last time I re-watched it within the summer time, it kind of sent me personally into hook spiral, and I also texted this older semi-closeted individual that I’d kind of begun tentatively wanting to time or time whatever, and who’d vanished for a month, and that I had abadndoned because I do not ask individuals to date me personally. But i simply ended up being love, “Okay.” I viewed

Desert Hearts

and I also was actually like, “I guess perhaps often people have their own internalized whatever.” And I also texted this lady and that I mentioned, “If we never meet, i believe you’re going to regret it.” And now we did fulfill, to make sure that’s just what

Desert Hearts

can create to you.

Christina:

Wow, that’s a really strong endorsement.

Drew:

We probably must not have satisfied. We probably needs to have only allow it to be. But anyways, moving forward, then film.

Christina:

Our subsequent film, metaphysics, scene during beginning credit — what that means, it really is your choice — high-school soccer, Chicago, Illinois.

Drew:

Oh,

Princess Cyd.

Christina:

There you choose to go.

Drew:

Which is another great film. I prefer that I hold getting surprised by this listing that I had a really strong hand in position. It isn’t really my position, but used to do have a huge suppose from inside the position and I also love it.

Christina:

Yeah. I simply want to be obvious to you and our audience — once again, We selected through the top 50, very these are great types. In the good types, these are typically good types. I know Drewshould continuously state it is a fantastic film after every one, but—

Drew:

They’re good movies, all of you should watch them.

Christina:

Okay. Brief dress with pumps.

Drew:

Think it’s great.

Christina:

Cock blocked, mini skirt with boots.

Drew:

After all, is-it

Blockers?

Christina:

It is really not. That would be too simple, i believe, for

Blockers.

Drew:

Really Don’t bear in mind any miniskirts, but—

Christina:

Female backside nudity.

Drew:

Okay. Hold off another. Okay, what an extra. Okay, cock blocked, mini top, feminine back nudity.

Christina:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Break dancing.

Drew:

Is it

Bound?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

No, i’d love a rest moving world.

Christina:

I adore a rest dancing scene in

Bound.

Drew:

Some slack moving world.

Christina:

I will provide you with: English lady abroad.

Drew:

English woman overseas? This is exactly someone else in which personally i think we undoubtedly need to have it.

Christina:

I’m going to need to present a fairly clear any at some point, making sure thatshould assist.

Drew:

Okay, provide me personally a clear one.

Christina:

Undercover representative.

Drew:

Could it be

D.E.B.S?

Christina:

It is not

D.E.B.S.

It really is right beside

D.E.B.S.,

sorts of film sensible. Here’s another one, intrigue.

Drew:

Okay, wait, there is not that many genre flicks.

Christina:

You’ll findn’t, that is correct.

Drew:

Undercover representative. Well, possibly they can be using the phrase, could it possibly be

The Handmaiden?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

Okay, i did not think-so. Undercover agent.

Christina:

Are you wanting the year?

Drew:

I thought that… Positive.

Christina:

Your own 12 months is actually 2017.

Drew:

Undercover representative.

Christina:

I am so sorry. You’re going to feel therefore foolish as I say the concept of your one.

Drew:

Oh no.

Christina:

I am really sorry about this, but that is types of just the way the cookie crumbles.

Drew:

Oh, its

Carol.

Christina:

No, it isn’t

Carol.

Drew:

No, it states 2015.

Christina:

Yes, I know that. It’s not

Carol.

Drew:

But there’s an undercover — the man, this is where I became considering. Okay, what exactly is it? Why does it create me feel silly?

Christina:

It Really Is

Atomic Blonde,

you dummy.

Drew:

Oh, that’s during the leading 50?

Christina:

Its. I know.

Drew:

Oh, okay.

Christina:

Fine. We’ve got four even more, you ready?

Drew:

I don’t think that foolish for the reason that it one I… after all, I think

Atomic Blonde

is actually fun, but I do not believe it’s great. That will never be inside my personal leading 50. I do want the entire world to understand that i understand that

Carol

came out in 2015. My mind harm. I simply want the entire world to know that. Anyways, carry on.

Christina:

The planet now knows that, the record has been shown. All righty: restaurant, feeling of odor, novelist, regard to a hamburger, mention of Larry King, considering memoir, alcoholic, theft, lady wears eyeglasses, living alone, destroying proof.

Drew:

The mention of Larry King is truly—

Christina:

It is a really weird one.

Drew:

Reference to Larry King, destroying proof.

Christina:

Cat.

Drew:

Oh, could it be

Can You Actually Forgive Myself?

Christina:

It is.

Drew:

I needed to get myself personally. I became actually in a slump truth be told there.

Christina:

You nailed it. I do believe you’ve got indeed there, I believe you absolutely got indeed there. Okay, three a lot more, our very own leading three. I believe these types will likely be easy for you because i understand you.

Drew:

Great, okay, really…

Christina:

I know, but i am saying, do you want?

Drew:

Okay, yeah.

Christina:

Mental health, medicine overdose.

Drew:

Would it be

Foxfire?

Christina:

No. Photographer.

Drew:

Oh,

Larger.

Christina:

There we get. Tattoo, woman group.

Drew:

Is this

Foxfire?

Christina:

Yeah.

Drew:

Oh, I’m sure

Foxfire.

Christina:

I happened to be like, “Oh, she is going to only keep speculating

Foxfire

until i simply offer her

Foxfire.”

Drew:

The secret is that I favor

Foxfire

and I keep wanting to think about

Foxfire.

Christina:

I mean, whomst in our midst?

Drew:

Angelina Jolie, gosh.

Christina:

Okay. That One, one of them is—

Drew:

This is actually the last one?

Christina:

Here is the last one. This can be the final one. Church, denial, household relationships.

Drew:

Is it

Miseducation of Cameron Article?

Christina:

It is not.

Drew:

Could it possibly be

But I’m a Cheerleader?

Christina:

It is, yes.

Drew:

Certainly. Comedic

Miseducation of Cameron Post.

Christina:

Jokes on laughs. So ended up being the online game i am phoning, How Well really does Drew Know Lesbian videos???

Drew:

I love how great we have been coming up with brands in regards to our video games.

Christina:

Yeah, that it is mortifying that I also penned that from inside the name of a Bing Doc, the thing that was I considering? That doesn’t even look nice during my Google Docs.

Drew:

I experienced a lot of fun and I also’m really grateful that I got to tell the listeners about all of the movies which they should see. And we’ll place the record into the program notes.

Christina:

Completely.

Drew:

I’d say that the list is currently at a place where In my opinion you’ll get anything of viewing all 200 motion pictures. One type of the list, there clearly was some stuff on there that I became much less satisfied with. There continues to be stuff i do believe that I really don’t directly but In my opinion that as one, there’s a specific quality-control after this most recent up-date that I believe happy with and I also think they are all well worth seeing.

Christina:


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